There are three purposes behind divine chastening:
- To persuade us to repent,
- To refine and sanctify us, and
- At times to redirect our course in life to what God knows is a better path.
The two stories told by Hugh B. Brown illustrate this principle eloquently. They should be referred to if you are trying to understand and teach this to others. The first regarding the trimming of the current bush is understandable to even young children. The second about religion being the factor in losing a promotion may illustrate a probable reason for some of our own disappointments in life. I can relate well to this statement by Elder Christofferson; "Even when we encounter mean-spirited criticism from persons who have little regard or love for us, it can be helpful to exercise enough meekness to weigh it and sift out anything that might benefit us."
Important corrections can many times come from our own spouse and we will do well to listen and consider when this is the case.